A question that often gets the most diverse answers is when I ask men what they think swagger means. Most mean think swagger is being cool, confident, sexy, having the ability to approach a potential partner and get them to go home with you, to be an amazing sex partner, to capture and hold the attention of everyone around you. That isn’t actually swagger.
Swagger is something else entirely. Swagger isn’t about you. Swagger is about everyone else. When you are focused on what you do and what you bring, you are focused on ego. Getting game and showing you have swagger is about shifting your focus away from you. Swagger is when you make your partner feel like the most important person in the room. Making your partner feel seen and heard and desired is swagger. When you partner feels like the most beautiful person in the room because of how you react, that is swagger.
If you are looking to up your game and learn more about swagger, contact Elliott at 617-834-4235 or by email at elliott@insightbrookline.com